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The Lotus flowers outside the famous Pai Temple |
As I sit here in the southern rim of Thailand watching the waves gently brush against the rocks, on one of those rare but clear and sunny days, I can't help but muse on everything that this beautiful country has taught me so far. My sign language skills accompanied by my Thai smile have rapidly improved and I have learnt to say "Hello" in many Thai dialects within the last 2 weeks - seems like a tremendously slow start for someone that speaks 6 languages. Ah well, I guess i'll choose the Turtle over the Hare any day.
As I reached Chiang Mai from Tha Ton, I read an interesting perspective to the meaning of Sawadee - or the first formal greeting in Thai derived from the word - Lotus flower. The Lotus is of great significance in the history of thailand and in Buddhism in general:
http://www.newsfinder.org/site/more/lotus_the_flower_the_symbol/
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| Pai Scapes |
The hands joint together to perform this welcoming act indicate the need to reach out to the sun and stay beautiful amidst all the mud and swamp and this is how my initiation happened at Pai - a really spectacular village in Northern Thailand that seems to have a great vibe to it
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pai,_Thailand
As I boarded the air conditioned mini van bound towards Pai from Chiang Mai, I realized that my best waterbottle
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KmwZP6H8U7w&feature=related was missing and perhaps I had left it behind at the hostel that I was staying out of in the city. So a few phone calls were made and the customer service levels were put to test. The plan was for me to continue my journey to Pai (without the bottle of course) and the bottle would take the next mini van departing Chiang Mai at 2:30 p.m. and make it into Pai at the Agency office for 6:30 p.m where I was supposed to pick it up from. I chuckled at the fact that my bottle was being treated as lost baggage - not bad at all.
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| Lush green |
The journey to Pai itself was quite uneventful. However, while I was busy making travel arrangements for my water bottle, all the passengers had already occupied the mini van and the driver had piled up about 10 large backpacks on the last seat and so, when I was ready to board the van, guess what seat I ended up in? Yes, right next to the backpacks - not good.
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| A view from my Motorbike |
The views on the other hand were breathtaking and were some of the most lush landscapes I have ever seen in a countryside setting. The green shades were quite refreshing and unique. I rented a motorcycle for a 100 Baht the next day and rode as far as I could possibly ride. There are 720 curves between Chiang Mai and Pai and it feels like navigating through a video game except in REAL 3D. I finally pulled up for a cup of tea in one of the villages and felt extremely satisfied that I was able to savour some of this natural beauty without being packed into a air-conditioned bus equipped with brochures and maps and a tour guide. So 107 km later, my bike almost made it to Mae Hong Song while having multiple stop overs on the way some of which included an exotic naturally formed Lod caves in Phang Ma Pha
http://www.silkth.com/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=149:a&catid=46:mae-hong-son&Itemid=112. I wanted to repeat the same ride the next day and go even further but my plans were completely hijacked by a 90 year old woman from Pai that has recently undergone treatment for Cancer.
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| Tham Nam Lod Caves of Phang Ma Pha |
"We are off to the village to visit Aung", said my hostess at the guest house called Darlingview point - highly recommend staying here just to experience the amazing energy of the owners Annie and Peter. The guest house itself was originally by the river and got completely destroyed in the floods of 2005 when the Pai river consumed a major portion of the village. Annie - who almost lost her life then, decided to rebuild the entire lodge and found help flowing to her from various directions. Ever since then, they have been able to build 5 bungalows in the mountains with a gorgeous view of the Pai Village and have been really big in giving back to the hill tribe community as well as to the people of Pai.
"We will be taking supplies such as vegetables, oil, milk and other essentials, would you like to come with us?" piped Annie with a broad smile that was characteristic of her XXXL sized heart.
How could I refuse?
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| Aung at 90 |
So we met Aung who was this really cute and sweet 90 yr old lady that lived in a simple hut and loved to have company. The moment I saw her, I knew I was going to fall in love with her spirit. She had a few teeth missing and had recently undergone a surgical procedure to remove a malignant Tumor on her neck. She couldn't hear in one ear, so Annie had to keep talking loudly into her right ear so she could understand what we were trying to communicate with her. She was grateful for our kindness and wanted to say a small prayer on our behalf. So we all held hands while she chanted a Buddhist hymn that was supposed to confer peace, love and prosperity on all of us. I ended up spending a good portion of my day talking to her, laughing with her and feeling like the good old times I used to have with my grandma back in India. We even got her to do the 'Yo, I am cool' sign with her hands - I think she found this amusing. I noticed she had to get up each time she needed water, so my superstar Vapur bottle would be a great gift to Aung, this was the moment when I realized that world's most favourite water bottle had been shipped into Pai for a very specific reason.
"Make sure you sterilize the bottle in hot water for a few hours before she starts using it", I instructed Annie who readily nodded and was super happy at the prospect of Aung being able to get a little comfort in her life.
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Peter and Annie:
My hosts in Pai |
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| My Thai Grandma |
As I started to leave Aung's hut, she held my hand to her cheek and smiled at me revealing toothless smile. I felt a slight pang of separation which was quite rapidly overcome with a feeling of gratefulness for having met this incredibly strong woman who lives simply.